you won't ever have to do without us ray...we are here for you and intend to stay ....your mother's situation would be taking a toll on you if you were 100% so i cannot imagine ....please talk to us...even if listening is all we can do. maxine ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn