for me 'the worst case scenario' is a concept born out of ignorance (i.e. no knowledge - not no etiquette!) sired by our societal fascination and maybe even addiction to fear-mongering horror-stories can be spine-chilling and thrilling but such illusions can not serve as a modus operandi for our life here (unless we are in the casino aka insurance business!) why do we prefer to look ahead for 'the worst case'? why do we never look ahead for 'the best case'? why are we looking ahead at all? don't we have enough to do? if i look for the worst possible outcome of any situation i will visualise that outcome i wlll be drawn to those influences which look to me like they 'fit' that outcome thus corroborating my fears thus intensifying my visualisation and thus enabling the feared outcome to actualise as a 'self-fulfilled prophecy' do you know what will happen to you tomorrow? in january? in 2010? why don't you know? why don't i know? if anyone truly knew, wouldn't they own the entire world? wouldn't the one who owns it thus also know it the best? wouldn't the one who knows it thus also be the one who created it? all theoretical hypothetical, rhetorical questions, maybe but i know we are not being toyed with we are not being punished we are guilty of nothing our only task here is learning from that which we are given we have the 'best possible scenario' in our hands and hearts here and now janet http://neuro-mancer.mgh.harvard.edu/ubb/Forum71/HTML/009274.html -- janet paterson a new voice http://www.janetpaterson.net/ pd: 56-41-37 cd: 56-44-43 tel: 613-256-8340 an akinetic rigid subtype, albeit primarily perky, parky ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn