Claudia, I hope you don't mind me replying to yo since yo wrote "on list" . I am a 47 year old PWP and my wife works full time ass a PE teacher. do you feel guilty leaving your spouse at home and traveling? Are your kids all grown up? My wife tells me to go, travel and visit friends but I have a hard time leaving the family (kids 16 and 13 years old..) How did you get over that feeling of guilt at "not doing your share" and missing out on kids' activities? Scott Stockton, CA ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn