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Elizabeth: Perhaps a psychologist could help you deal with your daughter Inge On Fri, 9 Jun 2006 04:05:35 -0400 El Che <[log in to unmask]> writes: > Hello, > > I am more afraid about the new ways of speaking about PD as a > psychologic > disease or addiction symptoms resulting of agonist effects... After > years > of studying "physical symptoms" the new trends seems to look on the > size of > "psychological effects" or in a view with Parkinson Disease is a > "demence" > as some people say in France. I just come back in Canada (Quebec) > from a > trip in my family in France and I could tell you that people with PD > are not > open like us in North America to tell openely they have PD. > Because the > diseases relatives to a brain disorder is viewing as "suspect" and > it is > sometime a shame in a family to have one person having that. It's > almost > like MST diseases...Disease from my point of view is not a bad > word... a > disease, in particular with physical symptoms like mouvment > disorders is a > "clean disease" because it is not something "bad" that you did to > have it > (ex. AIDS should be more problematic to announced it around a table > in a > business lunch or at work. And please, I understand and compatise > with > people who had any diseases, I just took AIDS as an example to make > a point: > disease that we could speak about and, not be proud to have it of > course, > but not be ashamed too. > > Until now I was very open to talk about PD around me but now I begin > to feel > more nervous, anxious... > > My personal preoccupation is people using PD effects on humor or > even not be > a "stable person because you have tremor and in a nervous situation > you are > shaking more and more"...to destroy the confidence in the PD > person... as I > recently divorced, my ex-husband still plays with the words about > "my PD and > volatility effects" and my daugther, who was very close to me > younger, is > now closer to him as he is a very stable person ! I don't know > exactly to > in me but I hope you could understand that I am afraid to lost my > daugther.... I am a good mother and still coult take care on her.... > but > they began together lifing about somes mistakes I should make... and > after > that said some words, but still in a joking way, about my driving > way (I > "take" sometime the corner to close and a wheel jump a little bit on > the > sideway) but I am driving prudently and I am not a "public > danger"....but > as my daugther became "a little bit afraid to be in my car", she > preferred > taking the bus or having his father taking her....inch by inch, day > by day, > my ex-husband maid some points and I am not in a good position to > fight with > him. > > The worst for me now is that they told me recently that maybe next > year, as > she has now 14 years old, she could decide to live full time in his > house. > Legally divorced just last december, we had the "garde partagée" > which is > one week for her to be with me, one week with him. We live closer > and even > if it is not the best way of living, I could not imagine my life > without ma > daugther at home, even if she is in a bad mood. > > So, I do not want to cry on my condition but I needed to tell > that... With > the hope to have some understanding in that place, maybe some of you > had > passed by a same way and tell me or give me some hints to do or > things to > avoid. > > Thanks anyway for having reading me until the end :-) > > Elisabeth > > _________________________________________________________________ > Vous cherchez une maison? Visitez Sympatico / MSN Immobilier > http://mamaison.sympatico.msn.ca/Immobilier > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: > mailto:[log in to unmask] > In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn