Thank you Russ. The obit brought back so many good moments with this great teacher, so self-effacing and so profound, and unafraid to say so often that we must feel before and as we write. A very happy new year to all of you! Patrick ----- Original Message ----- From: "Russ Hunt" <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Monday, January 01, 2007 1:50 PM Subject: Don Murray >I suspect a fair number of Inkshedders will remember Don -- who never got >to an Inkshed conference, but who was awfully influential with many who >did. > > -- Russ > > ================== > Columnist Donald Murray dies at 82 > Pulitzer winner penned Globe's 'Now and Then' > By Bryan Marquard, Globe Staff | December 31, 2006 > > Five days ago, in his last "Now and Then" column published in the Globe > before he died, Donald Murray was as in love with writing as he had been > as a teenager -- and just as anxious. > > "Each time I sit down to write I don't know if I can do it," he wrote. > "The flow of writing is always a surprise and a challenge. Click the > computer on and I am 17 again, wanting to write and not knowing if I can." > > He could, and did, for decades -- winning a Pulitzer Prize at 29 for > editorials he wrote for the Boston Herald, teaching writing at the > University of New Hampshire, publishing book after book, penning column > after column. > > "He basically lived through his writing," said his daughter Anne. "In some > ways that was more real to him than his real life. Everything had to be > sifted through his writing -- the good and bad. His whole life was > writing." > > Mr. Murray, who lived in Durham, N.H., was visiting a friend in Beverly > yesterday when he died, apparently of heart failure. At 82, he was about > to launch a website where aspiring writers could apprentice with the aging > master, extending his career from the days of typewriter carbon copies to > cyberspace. > > For two decades, Mr. Murray wrote the Globe's "Over 60" column, which was > renamed "Now and Then" in 2001. Ostensibly aimed at the retired and the > elderly, the column drew in readers of all ages. > > "You would think that his column would appeal almost exclusively to older > readers, but I know so many younger readers who follow Don Murray and have > to know what happened," said Steve Greenlee, Living editor at the Globe > and formerly Mr. Murray's editor. > > Effortlessly turning the personal, the private, and sometimes the painful > parts of his life into universal experiences, Mr. Murray crafted columns > in which the passing of his years became a narrative embraced by legions > of loyal readers. > > As his beloved wife, Minnie Mae, declined slowly from Parkinson's disease, > readers were with him as he savored their remaining years. Silently > watching from the vantage of newsprint, they sat with Mr. Murray beside > her bed in their home and later in the assisted living facility where she > died in February 2005. > > When he reflected on the changes wrought in his life after he suffered a > heart attack in the mid-1980s, readers trembled at his fears and basked in > his triumphs -- one of which was simply living to write again, and again. > > "I have achieved another generation," he wrote in March 2001 when his > column's name changed. "I am no longer young-old, but at 76, old and > looking forward to graduating to ancient in another 15 years. I had always > thought the title of the column would be 'Over 60' until it could become > 'Over 100,' but my editors suggest that I am so much over 60 that we > should rename it. > > "It will be called 'Now and Then' (Minnie Mae's idea) and will allow me > not only to report on the interior landscape of one who continues to ripen > but also to comment on the external life with the perspective of an > elder." > > Donald Morrison Murray was born in Boston and grew up in Quincy. He had no > siblings and, characteristically frank, described his childhood as > unhappy. > > "My parents and teachers got together and decided I was stupid," he wrote > last year. "My response was to develop a private mantra: 'I'm stupid but I > can come in early and stay late.' Surprise. It worked. Good work habits > will beat talent every time." > > Mr. Murray was a paratrooper during World War II and married Ellen Pinkham > in 1946. Their marriage ended in divorce and he graduated from the > University of New Hampshire in 1948 with a bachelor's degree in English. > He went to work as a copyboy at the Herald and became a staff reporter in > 1949. > > Two years later he turned to editorial writing and married Minnie Mae > Emmerich, who "was five years older than I was, an embarrassment her > mother never accepted," he wrote this year. > > Mr. Murray was awarded a Pulitzer in 1954 for editorials "on the 'New > Look' in National Defense which won wide attention for their analysis of > changes in American military policy," according to the Pulitzer website. > > Turning down an offer to become an editor, Mr. Murray continued to write > and started teaching college writing courses, then moved to New York City, > where he worked briefly for Time magazine. He became a freelance writer in > 1956, a tenuous existence for someone supporting a family. He began > publishing books and joined the University of New Hampshire faculty in > 1963, becoming professor emeritus in 1984. > > The university awarded him an honorary doctorate in 1990. Earlier, in > 1981, he won the Yankee Quill Award, awarded by the New England Society of > Newspaper Editors and the New England Chapter of the Society of > Professional Journalists. > > As a writing coach, Mr. Murray was revered as he brought his plainspoken > message to classrooms and newsrooms. > > "What Don did was take the mystique and myth out of writing for so many in > newsrooms and elsewhere who thought you just had to wait for inspiration > to come," said Chip Scanlan, who teaches writing at the Poynter Institute > and was working for The Providence Journal when he met Mr. Murray. "He did > this with a simple but powerful message: Good writing may be magical, but > it's not magic. It's a process, a rational series of steps and decisions > that all writers take." > > "He said those words and they galvanized me," Scanlan said. "I think I > know what it's like to be an apostle, because I've been quoting and > teaching Don Murray ever since that day." > > For Mr. Murray, each column, each sentence presented an opportunity to > teach, and writing was never the only lesson. One of his many books, "The > Lively Shadow," was about his middle daughter, Lee, who died at 20. > > "We don't get over the death of those we love," he wrote in a 1999 column. > "Don't tell those who have suffered such a loss to get over it. Think how > terrible it would be if we could forget." > > In addition to his daughter Anne, who lives in Weymouth, Mr. Murray leaves > another daughter, Hannah Starobin of Mount Kisco, N.Y.; two grandsons; and > a granddaughter. > > A funeral service will be announced. > > ========================== > > Russell Hunt > Department of English > St. Thomas University > http://www.stu.ca/~hunt/ > > -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- > To leave the list, send a SIGNOFF CASLL command to > [log in to unmask] or, if you experience difficulties, > write to Russ Hunt at [log in to unmask] > > For the list archives and information about the organization, > its newsletter, and the annual conference, go to > http://www.stu.ca/inkshed/ > -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- > -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- To leave the list, send a SIGNOFF CASLL command to [log in to unmask] or, if you experience difficulties, write to Russ Hunt at [log in to unmask] For the list archives and information about the organization, its newsletter, and the annual conference, go to http://www.stu.ca/inkshed/ -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-