Arnie, I certainly do remember you, and thanks for helping me then and for your concern now. The guilt is horrible, as I have a 91 year old mother and a 93 year old mother in law to take care of with Brig. He had a fall last July with a brain bleed and that seemed to set in the dementia, who knows. I just want him to be able to handle the nursing home, that's all. Gerry ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn