I thought the reply to Kadija, was very thoughtful and heart warming, thank you, Houdiniphiler, that compassionate response. Having been a caregiver for 22 years, I thought you said it all in a short paragraph. Gerry and Brig Haines ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn