Ray, in your heart, you know the answer to your question already. You know you need a reliable caregiver and you also know yours is not. It's a hard step to take but you will not be healthier or stronger than you are today so get the search started and find another caregiver and make this new year a less stressful one for yourself. Hugs, Gail Vass ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn