you're welcome, Rick -----Original Message----- From: Rick McGirr Sent: Tuesday, February 26, 2013 10:02 AM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: 7 Tips for Couples Coping with Parkinson's Disease Thanks for this, Ray. Don't know where I'd be (buried) without my wife. Rick -----Original Message----- From: Parkinson's Information Exchange Network [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Rayilyn Brown Sent: Monday, February 25, 2013 1:18 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Fw: 7 Tips for Couples Coping with Parkinson's Disease From: Leslie Chambers, American Parkinson Disease Association Sent: Monday, February 25, 2013 9:00 AM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: 7 Tips for Couples Coping with Parkinson's Disease Home | Related Links | News & Updates | Donate Dear Rayilyn, Most relationships bring us joy and comfort, but dealing with a chronic illness can create obstacles for even the happiest of couples. Living with Parkinson’s disease brings new meaning to “in sickness and in health,” and the American Parkinson Disease Association (APDA) is here to help. With patience and commitment there are ways you and your partner can deal with the strain a chronic illness can place on your relationship. a.. Communicate. The right amount of communication is key. Relationships can suffer when problems with no obvious solution aren’t discussed, and lack of discussion can lead to feelings of distance. Ensure you and your partner are being clear with each other without being consumed with talking about the illness. b.. Ease Stressful Emotions. Anxiety and feelings of sadness are normal. Rosalind Kalb, vice president of the professional resource center at the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, says, “The best way to deal with anxiety is to identify the root of the worry and find strategies and resources to address it.” To feel more in control, learn more about Parkinson’s and tap into some of the available resources APDA has to offer. c.. State Your Needs. Be clear and direct about your needs because your partner may be unclear. Chronic illness can often shift the balance of a relationship, so talk to one another about how to divide responsibilities. Failure to do so can cause the caregiver to feel overwhelmed, and the partner with Parkinson’s may feel like more of a patient than a significant other. d.. Watch the Caregiver’s Health. If you are the caregiver, you need to be physically and emotionally well for your own health – for yourself and for your loved one. Prevent burnout and overcome stress by getting involved in physical activities, asking for help, and setting realistic goals for yourself. Exceeding your limit can be a risk, so if you’re feeling a loss of interest in activities, withdrawing from friends, and emotional and physical exhaustion, it’s time to seek help for your own well-being. Click here to view more relationship tips. Overcoming Challenges, Leslie A. Chambers, President and CEO American Parkinson Disease Association Please help spread the word. Forward this message to a friend! © American Parkinson Disease Association, 2003-2012. All Rights Reserved | Privacy Policy 135 Parkinson Avenue | Staten Island, NY 10305 | Tel. (800) 223-2732 | www.apdaparkinson.org If you prefer not to receive APDA e-mail correspondence, please unsubscribe here. The American Parkinson Disease Association, Inc. was founded in 1961 "To Ease the Burden - To Find the Cure" for Parkinson's disease. Headquartered in New York, the organization focuses its energies on research, patient support, education and raising public awareness of Parkinson's disease. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn