Dear Edwin: What a story of the surgery experiences? It is one of those stories where a number of things go wrong, and the system cannot figure out how to listen to you. I had an experience about 15 years ago in our local Catholic hospital where I had surgery for a hernia repair. At that time, they assigned a nurse to me who was a patient advocate and she came to me and interviewed me prior to the surgery. And then checked in on me daily while I was in the hospital. Something like that might have helped you get "the messages" through to the medical personnel. I am apalled that you got so ignored. There is an arrogance in the system that is based on the belief that they know what to do, and you do not. I guess that the other lesson I take from your experience, is that I should make sure that the neurologist is part of the treatment picture before beginning the procedures. One would expect that the surgeons would have done that; but here, at least, they did not. All the best. I hope that you are recovering decently. And that you can avoid that kind of thing when the next surgery is done. Sincerely, Bob Newbrough