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So many of you have been wonderful and encouraging regarding my family's dilemma with my Dad...I can't begin to thank you. Some suggestions have been made regarding both drug reactions, or subdural hemotoma resulting from his fall. Both will be checked into as soon as I can drag him into the doctor (Dr. Nichter at Buffalo's VA Hospital). Some additional background, if anyone else may be able to come up with other ideas of things to check: About 2 mos ago, Dad was acting "odd", and kept saying that he smelled gas. No one else could smell it, but he became so insistent about it, that in the early evening, my Mom called the gas company to check the lines. She also called my sister to come over and help. The gas company sent 2 guys who went with my Mom to check the lines, and my sister arrived just as they were heading down into the basement. My father was walking to the front door to greet my sister and collapsed in her arms. He had no voluntary movement of ANYTHING...not even his eyes. He was taken by ambulance to the nearest hospital, where there was apparently difficulty with his blood pressure (the doctor said it wasn't stable). Due to lack of beds, he was transferred to the associated hospital in the city (Millard Fillmore Hospital in Buffalo NY). He regained use of his extremities but felt extremely weak (which lasted for a few weeks). He didn't seem very confused or "out of it" to any degree. Tests that were done were inconclusive. According to the doctors, they didn't think he had a stroke. They did find a small kidney stone, however, which they made arrangements to remove on an outpatient patient. During the time he was in the hospital, it was a constant challenge to get his meds on time and correctly, and finally, my Mom & Dad were given control of his PD meds, which helped. When Dad went to get the kidney stone removed, a malignant tumor was found in the bladder. The doctor said that it was a type that is usually not found "until it's too late" and that all of it was able to be removed. Dad doesn't need chemo or any other CA treatment, but will be scoped every 3-6 mos to make sure there is no reoccurance. Most of the changes that we have seen in him have been since this collapse that he had. We have talked to Dr. Nichter about the poss- ibilty of Dad getting a walker, but we were told that walkers only prevent forward falls, and are therefore not a good option. Does anyone have any other ideas regarding this also. Sorry that this note was so long...thank you so much for your very kind help. We all appreciate it! Sharon