I heartily agree with the idea of sharing with children the realities of family life, PD included. Kids are quick to sense "family secrets", and that leaves them in an ambiguous position, not a healthy one. Teenagers are certainly old enough, and even 11 yr. olds, to be given the straight facts along with the hope that research will find better treatments or a cure before too many years. As for telling the boss--that would perhaps depend on both the ways in which your symptoms would (or would not) affect job prerformance, and also on the relationships involved. Many younger Parkies/PDers work for years after diagnosis, and are very productive. Good luck! Camilla Flintermann in Oxford,OH ********* ******** ******** "Even arrival is also a point of departure ..." ********* ********