Nic, Lisa, et.al. Have read with interest the conversations about if and when to tell children about one's Parkinsons. Thought I'd share briefly my "two cent's worth". My wife, Judy was diagnosed at 27 years old, when our two children were two years and one month old respectively. We had the usual debate about whether to tell friends and associates. Decided yes! Best choice we ever made, because of all the good support which we have received. We talked openly around the boys as they grew up about Parkinsons. They were always understanding and solicitous about their mother, responded with compassion when she needed to be helped in some way. We used humor a lot and laughed when "strange" things happened. As our sons became school age and had friends over, we tried to be sensitive to the reactions their friends might have. Once Judy asked our fourth grade son, "Do your friends know about me?" when kids dropped by. He replied, "Yes, Mom, they know you have a strange sense of humor." As adults, I think they are better people, more compassionate and understanding, because of the openness in talking about Parkinsons and other limitations. One other quick anecdote: Several years ago our youngest son, then a college freshman, was home and was watching a special on educational TV featuring those recently seen in the "Frozen Addicts". During the show he was watching the dyskensia of one of the victims and said, "That's the first time I've ever seen someone move like mother." I was completely shocked when he said this, since he had never seen his mother without Parkinsons, almost 19 years. Judy and I know literally hundreds of people with Parkinsons, have been part of support groups in several states, and have been active advocates in a variety of settings. I realized that our son had never met any of these people, and had never been around any one else that had Parkinsons. Seeing these "frozen addicts" and their movement and realizing that others were experiencing similar problems as his mother had a profound impact on him, one that I will never forget! Telling our children might not be enough. We may need to introduce them to some of friends as well. EDWARD MARTIN, Truman, Minnesota. (written on Mon, Aug 7, 1995, at 10:05 pm) Internet Address: [log in to unmask]