Dear Joyce Saylor: Your message helped lots. Just knowing that another family has been through something similar and can laugh about it made the load lighter. I must say your dad's hallucinations are more creative than my dad's hallucinations! He sounds like a pistol! On a serious note, has he experienced paranoia? Do your sisters or mother have any advice for coping as caregiver? I appreciate your hesitation to discuss meds, but the way your family and neuro handle it certainly makes sense. Please keep lurking and laughing and I'll try to do the same. Thanks, Betti Adams Betti S. Adams [log in to unmask]