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(The etc. is first this time.) David Boots. I think that if the Parkinson's Community has a magazine, a beefcake centrefold and a playmate of the month, we should have a 'theme song' too. My suggestion is "I Go Out Walking After Midnight'. :) About creating a 'sister(or brother)-list'. Simon and I have chatted by email about this earlier. Along with John Cottingham, Simon has been of tremendous assistance to me and to others of our group. What I don't know about email/internet, could (and does) fill many books. What these two DO know could fill many books. At the risk of sounding self-serving, I don't like the idea of splitting into two lists. I like the mix of messages and members. When members contribute very technical articles, it makes me more aware of how much research work is being done. When members contribute very personal, first-person messages about dealing with Parkinson's, it reminds me that I'm not the only one and also shows me better and/or easier ways to do things. I think that these messages also give the caregivers among us (especially the professionals ... doctors, nurses, researchers) a clearer picture of us without the distractions of our visible symptoms. I know I'm not making myself clear so here is a first-hand example. A few weeks ago, I went to our local support group meeting. I noticed an elderly man, sitting slumped foward, looking at the floor with no expression on his face. I thought that he must not be getting much out of the meeting. Then I thought "Twit! He could be any of us on the list" and because I had let his visible symptoms of Parkinson's influence me, I never met the real person behind those symptoms. We don't SEE each other, so in many ways we have a clearer picture of each other. I told this story (true) to two nursing students who had read one day's posting to our list. They were very impressed with the scope of our list and after I told them about the support group incident, one of them said that she had had a problem communicating with a patient with Parkinson's. She said it was so true that so much of our impression of a person is based on visual cues and that this sort of forum gives a whole different viewpoint. I think that there are two nursing students who will look at any pd patients they may havein the future with a lot more understanding. I seem to have wandered from the point but I DO feel that splitting into two lists will weaken our strongest point...we are ALL in this together. If we don't like long, technical postings (I personally believe that any word which consists of a number, a hyphen, and letters is NOT meant for me to read) we can delete them or talk to our service providers about a reasonable method of handling them. But I DO believe that those messages have a place with us. I know how much work being a list-owner can be so I REALLY appreciate Simon's offer and am open to suggestions as to how we can make use of Simon's willingness. One suggestion...one of our members had written to me about the vast amount of information available in our archives, in particular, medications/effects/side effects/interactions. Sorry to go on for so long. Barb