Debra, In a message dated 95-11-17 12:02:47 EST, you write: >BTW - Everything is good again, I'm so glad I vented here instead of to her. >My mother-in-law gave us some groceries yesterday - out of her freezers. >She really does try in alot of ways, and she has said "Thank You" to my >husband and I many times. I guess we can all have a bad day. She is not only >my mother-in-law, she is my friend. Maybe this is an example of why this group has become so important to so many of us? Take care of yourself. joyce