I agree wholeheartedly - honesty isi the best policy! When first diagnosed in my thirties, as a single parent, I had life to deal with - for my kids sake, it's only fair to know what your up against. How else can you hold steadfast, or help your loved ones to deal with it ... I'm really discouraged that some medical staff insist on treating adults like children. People should be asked how they want to be treated. True, some have afforded to lead sheltered lives in all adventures of their lives. For those, I imagine the only way thay can afford not dealing with the truth is because they've had someone to help. Some don't have that luxury and the truth is an absolute necessity for best arming onself for survival. I appreciate directness rather than being mislead.