Good day, As a "caregiver" it is my preference to know the whole picture. It is my nature to want to understand what is to be expected as well as what the current situation is. This allows me to make informed decisions as I need to. I'm not, by any means, going to dwell on the negatives, but will consciously seek the positive in each situation, although this is sometimes a pain in the data base to do. Sigh..... I believe that Becky wants to understand the whole picture as well, but she has a challenge in that she worries, maybe overmuch. She would rather plan for future possibilities than to be surprised. Thus endth my 02 cents. Jeff Jones