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On March 3, Stephen Wardwell wrote - there are some questions of "netiquette" ... I noticed that it is not Stephen who has PD, but his father. Therefore, I feel obliged to use the soap box to address these questions one last time. 1. INCLUDING ALL OF AN ORIGINAL MESSAGE - agreed, the whole message need not be sent and a message "I absolutely agree" without some part of the previous message is not helpful. However, we are not all computer and/or internet gurus, as Don Peckham said of himself the other day. 2. A PERSONAL MESSAGE SHOULD BE SENT TO THE PERSON INTENDED - agreed, but again, the above applies. 3. MAKE SUBJECT HEADERS MORE SPECIFIC - agreed, but there are often times when we with PD have great difficulty with fine motor skills, rigidity, tremor, etc. During these times when we would not be able to hold a pen, much less write, we can peck away at a keyboard, and typing one word in a subject header may be an accomplishment, especially if that person is having a bad day. The bad days are often when we need the contact with our peers the most. Once diagnosed with PD, few of us would ignore anything with the word SINEMET in it. Though someone else's dosage may be somewhat meaningless to some, but because PD is such an individualistic condition, and everyone reacts differently to the meds involved, I would guess that most of us are extremely interested to read about other people's meds and dosages. This is true of any topic that may not pertain to everyone, but Janet Paterson said it best - 'posting a message to this list is like planting a seed.' 4. NO SUBJECT HEADERS - I also prefer to know something about what I am going to read, but as has already been pointed out, it can be done inadvertently. I recently sent a letter to my son and just as I clicked on 'send' realized I had not typed anything in the subject header. Not that it mattered in that case, but to err is human. It should be remembered too, that PD is a neurological disorder and short term memory loss is no stranger to us. If we are distressed we are probably more concerned with getting our message out than worrying about a subject header. THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIST IS TO GIVE SUPPORT AND EXCHANGE INFORMATION TO HELP US COPE WITH PARKINSON'S DISEASE. If it helps us become more knowledgeable about computers and the internet along the way - hurray for us, because for a once active person to be forced to admit that he/she cannot do all the things that were once possible can be quite traumatic, and often there is a great sense of loss of self esteem. The people on this list are extremely knowledgeable and caring and there is all kinds of factual information to be gleaned from the archives and perhaps that would be more helpful to some. I apologize if I have offended anyone - that was not my intent, but concerns about too full mailboxes, where and how mail got sent, seem rather trivial when one is trying to cope with PD and all the implications. I will jump off the soap box now - I can say 'jump' because it has been a reasonably good day. Keep well all. Judith 54/3