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Barbara has been hospitalized for the third time in two months. First for a colon resection, then an abdominal blockage with subsequent release after 12 days with a hoped for natural self-correction. But that failed and back for more aggressive treatment: surgery. The surgery went fine, but what ensued could be used as a comedy script were it for the seriousness and frustrating aspect of the situation. This is summarized as 'speak softly but carry a big stick'. Even though Barb is nurse and I am a research chemist (both retired) and a former enlisted medic, we had a hard time with maintaining control in caring and medication. This note is to caution the group again to be assertive in this situation. Heed the advice from Dr. Mitchell Mills posted here on 4 Dec. 1995: 'The bottom line is: it is just not safe to sit back and assume that all will be done correctly. It is necessary that we be strong advocates for ourselves and our loved ones.' But do not antagonize the staff as my policy has always been not to insult the alligator until you have crossed the river. Good luck.