Mike--re: help foryour grandmother--since I don't know where she lives it's hard to be specific, but there ARE resources in most communities.CHECK WIT H ANY OR ALL OF THE FOLLOWING that may exist where she is-- Council on Aging, County HUman Services Dept., Senior Center, Family Service agency , Information & Referral Agency If you look in phone book yellow pages under "social agencies" you will find helpful listings. We are--thank God--getting more resources to help folks in their own homes, but not all are available in every community. Good luck in your search--she's lucky to have you on her side! Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter,76/6+ Oxford,OH (A reminder to all of us--please do indicate where you live , as it's a help in answering questions/making connections :-) )