Donna--what a bummer---I do hope you have plenty of good support, both practical and emotional, to get you through this. Family? Good friends? Co-workers,if still working? And don't forget the option of counseling, which can offer many good things to you in dealing with feelings, assessing your options, and so on--as a retired therapist I have helped many wonen--and men too--deal with such situations and come out the other side. The PD adds another whole level of stress for you, of course, but I'm glad you're here with us--stay connected! Camilla Flintermann,CG for Peter 78 today/6+ Oxford,OH [log in to unmask]