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Hi Jackie. I can relate. My father is esperiencing many of the problems you mentioned your dad was having. The people on this list have offered some very practical coping tips which I have been passing on to both my mother and father. I think my biggest job is to help my family, particularly my parents, to deal with PD related problems like incontinence without getting all "hot and bothered." I keep pointing out that many people deal with PD, deal with it at a far younger age and therefore are much less mobile than my father, that we don't have to make it a big deal, etc. I particularly don't want my father to surrender to his depression and I keep telling him he's going to feel a little more in contact now that he's started sinemet. It's tough though. Today he got confused at the grocery check-out and I had to write the amount out for him which just embarrassed the hell out of him. It would be so much easier on him to just use his debit card but my mother doesn't want to pay the fees! I am going to put it to her that avoiding situations which could be too challenging for my father and avoiding the resultant loss in self-esteem from failure are worth the fee! I'm self-employed and so I'm able to be available -- usually -- when they need practical help but its hard to get my busy brothers and sisters to take the time to just BE with my father. He needs their loving presence even more than he needs the daily adl support. Here's hoping you find the same outlet for your concerns and frustrations I've found on this list. HMK [log in to unmask]