I want to echo this message to Alan Bonander. I consider him to be the finest writer in our group and never miss one of his letters if I can help it. Not only does he have a wonderful way with words, but his common sense and compassion and wisdom and willingness to share make him a treasure for all of us. I did so appreciate his message regarding returning the favor of care giving to our parents. Mine are 88 and 90 and he gave me some superb ideas which are most comforting to me. And, rather than plagiarizing those ideas, I am thinking of merely sending them Alan's superb letter in order to get the ball rolling. As he notes, this is not a subject which is unknown to them. Thank you, Alan. And please continue to share. Jack Stanfield, Laramie, Wyo. (PettifogJS @ AOL.com)