hello, a while ago I wrote about my mom-in-law whose husband began raving that she was cured by her PD because she had gone to masseus(sp?) in Trinidad. This reaction, as we all found out later was a sarcastic reaction. I do not understand him. He is not very considerate to her needs. He won't let her do much that she enjoys because he says she can't because of her PD (won't drive her places to visit people, etc...--but it is because he doesn't like it or doesn't want to do it.) But, he will drag her everywhere in order to do the things he likes. I am a new daughter in law (getting married in a month) and don't have the place, I feel, to make waves. My fiance and I try to take her out and do things with and for her that she likes to make up for it. I guess I am writting all this because I need to get it out and I don't really know what else to do. Thanks for listening! Deanna (Suraiya 55/+11)