Welcome to the LIST, Jamey. And best wishes to your family. Have you thought of joining a Support Group? I didn't think much of the idea at first, but, now after 12 years I find the friendship, knowledge, and support we offer one another to be invaluable. Your doctor or medical center may be ableto help you locate a group.Good luck! [log in to unmask] (Mary Manfredi) PS. Research has shown that members of support groups fare better than their fellow PWP, mm