Dear Judith and all members: PEACE - PEACE--PEACE PLEASE NOTE QUESTION While I do not know in detail what David said in his response to John some letters had me wonder about a subject which is not often talked about. I have seen my wife 62/9yrs go from the timid and even keeled bride/wife with a personality so sweet to a stubborn, arguemental, and mean personality. Her hate, depression, negative thinking has turned her into a women whose personality that I do no longer recognize. While we all assume that it is the PD causing it, it is hard to overlook these latest characteristics when you live with it. The sin in this whole matter is that the patient does not admit that there is anything wrong and does not want help. Having seen a personality change so drastically I am now under the opinion that the writer might have recognized our David Booth might be feeling real low. David, if you read this, keep in mind that I am not judging you nor am I sure of what you could have written, however somebody brought up that they had seen your writing change and suggested that maybe there has been some personality change. That hit home with me because of our situation. Please do not be bitter with some of us who are only caregivers and are not going through the pain the PWP goes through, nor do we totally understand the fear the PWP experiences. ***Question -- for the benefit to all of us please advice if your mate or partner (PWP) has gone through the drastic personality change I have witnessed in my partner.**** To all Peace--Peace Henry Guttentag ([log in to unmask])