Extremely well said by Camilla. I had to sign off the PARKINs list for many months because I do not have the time to read 350 pieces of mail a week. But I really need the info and support! Moderation is the key, humor is definately important, but consideration is also a priority. Maybe some of these chatting type of humourous postings/phrases in other languages could go private? Just a suggestion...... Lena Holmes parttime caregiver for Ilmi 74/2 Oakville, Ontario, Canada [log in to unmask]