Kathleen--I don't feel you have "bugged" your Dad too much--it seemed to be the only way to clarify things for you AND FOR HIM. You deserve a blue ribbon as a "long distance caregiver". IMHO. If you are interested in joining the list for caregivers of PWPs, here's how to do it: send to: [log in to unmask] in body of post: SUBscribe CARE(your first and last names) You will receive info about the list and how to proceed. There are many non-resident CGs on CARE, and you may find it helpful. Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter, 78/7, Oxford,Ohio [log in to unmask] * * * * * * * * * * * * * * "Ask me about the CARE list for PD caregivers!" * * * * * * * * * * * * * *