Say Stan, How does that old expression go? "You can please all the people some of the time and you can please some of the people all of the time but you can't please all the people all of the time"........ If you are wllling to put it in writing some one will take a shot at it. And you are a writer!! From what I've read of your postings to the List, you would be about the last person I would expect to be insensitive to someone else's pain.Actually I thought you made a great day of it according to your note of today.Good luck with your appointment on the 20th and WATCH OUT HOUSTON, HERE COMES SLAM BAM STAN!! george [log in to unmask] AMAZING GRACE Amazing grace, how sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me I once was lost, but now I'm found Was blind, but now I see