Dear Members: Thank you for all of your support I have received and he re is an update=20 of our situation.=20 I picked up my wife at the airport and everything went fine. The children= =20 and I have made a decision to sit down and talk to (Lynne) my wife this=20 regarding her medication and behavior and to get a doctor for a second=20 opinion. I have also gotten an appointment with our old Neuro for the=20 18th of this months.=20 Yesterday I went to see a re- caregiver counselor which was very useful.=20 He kept reminding me of my needs my needs and my needs. I had a tendency=20 of only bringing up Lynne=92s needs. The more I thought about our session= =20 the more I realized that this house or family mostly meets Lynne=92s need= s.=20 That was an interesting session. We will see how Sunday goes with the family meeting. Steve the son that=20 lives with us is still very apprehensive about the entire matter. His=20 brother says you are doing it for mother, why is it so hard. Reply- I=20 will try.