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Arena, Arla L. wrote: > > The more I tend to read about this Oprah show thing the more it is > starting to bother me. Some of > you seem to feel that getting on this show is just a lark. Arla, I can understand your frustration and perhaps misunderstanding of the posts here. I don't think anyone thinks that an opportunity for recognition on the Oprah or any show is a lark. I don't know how you cope with stress, but many of our listserv members have delightful sense of humors and enjoy a lot of joking banter back and forth. Some object, most of us enjoy the interaction and recognize it as a coping mechanism they use. They are witty and funny, but that does not mean they do not take all this seriously. I think we all know the seriousness of the opportunity. I think you also misinterpreted Stan Houston's plan. Obviously the most articulate members can represent PD best, but he did not suggest not telling the truth of the disease and all its problems and sad stories also. I know that my dad is at this point an extremely sad life, but that is my opinion, not that of my mom. My dad is mentally so far gone he cannot voice an opinion. Better the vocally able speak out. We all do understand your pain at least somewhat, but bear with those of us who voice it or deal with it differently. Numerous researchers have proven good results with laughter and positive thinking. We all need that. I think several have expressed well the consensus here about Ivan and gay PWPs. We accept his preference and respect his views. However focusing on that would detract from the purpose of the show. Still we do want Ivan to feel accepted here and suppported in his efforts to cope with PD. Fortunately he has someone who cares since his family does not accept his lifestyle. It is sad they cannot. Arla, my thoughts and prayers are with you, but please accept each of us and how we deal with PD and how we cope with uncertainty in life generally. We all owe Stan our support in his efforts to get some recognition. As I have said before he will reach thousands of people never even diagnosed and many looking for answers. Aloha, Gail -- Gail B. Post, RN,MS,CSN Honolulu, HI 96822