Barbara Mallut wrote: <The role of caregiver is one that no one up and volunteers for, and yet, most <people do an admirable job at it when pushed, however unwilling, into that <role. My virtual hats' off to all who are in the caregiver position, no matter <the illness or injury their loved one may have. <Barb Mallut Dear Barbara, What you said is amply demonstrated by the movie "Marvin's Room". I would hope that you could get a chance to see it. Diane Keaton is thrust into the role of CG. She aquits herself of that in a marvelous way. In contrast her sister, played by Meryl Streep, is shallow and selfish. But Diane's example works even on her! She ( Diane ) got a Oscar nomination for the role, but it is one of those movie gems that gets too little attention. Greetings, Will Will Kuipers Dallas, TX 76 / dx '91 [log in to unmask]