In a message dated 97-04-13 23:28:21 EDT, you write: << I am getting married in 3 weeks and I have instructed my family to call me home if something happens to my dad while I am away. I feel incredibly guilty even going in the first place. >> Please don't feel guilty (easier said than done, obviously). You have to remember your father the way he was, and know that he would want you to go on with your life and be happy. Your getting married will not affect the progression of his illness in any way. You and your family will be in our prayers. Sue, daughter of PWP