Dear Suzanne I write this as i would to my own daughter (I'm 51 and have had PD 13 yrs and have a daughter 29,married 1 1/2 yrs.) When I found out that I had PD, the first goal I set was to get my daughter through colege, so that she could go on with life. I'm sure your father wants that for you and would tell himself if he could. From a fathers heart, do what you can, love him, remember him as he was,...sadness you will feel, but you need not feel guilty for doing what he would want for you. I hope this helps Dwayne RamseY