Like, I like to think that 'attitude' has everything to do with it, and find that this helps. I like to look at the good points of having this, such as: You don't have to work. You get these terrific dreams. There is a lot worse. You don't get a cold or the flu. People actually care, ( can you say the same about Aids ? ) It is not our fault, that is nothing we did caused this. Pain is usually not involved. Anybody else care to add to this list? Billy Baird ([log in to unmask])