Dear Anthony: I will send a birthday message first thing Friday morning--and I will think of you both all day. Nancy Carlman recently came east for her Mother's 90th -- and she and the bridge club were still going strong --- and *her* drink was gin and tonic! We should be so lucky.... I knew you had a very tough decision ahead of you regarding the SFU job, and I'm glad to know how it turned out. These things have a way of working out, Anthony--who knows what better thing yet may come along.... love, Andrea