Hey Stephan,Liz here, I commend your statement about humor. I for one, new to this adventure, would be very depressed and aprehensive about my future if all I read about were what is facing me. You take away the humor and wht do you have, not a very bright future. But a future with humor is something with which I can cope. If these things are going to happen to me I want to face them with a smile and say "You are NOT going to wipe the smile off my face and a chuckle now and then [mostly now]. So please, you who poo, poo [there I go] our humor , do not take offense, we do it to go on day to day and thank God that we have a day to day. That boat has been very good for us Elizabeth