Bernard, as you know, the best part of life is when you are helping people you care about, whether it is a child, a parent, another relative, a friend, or a stranger......You never feel like you are wasting time when you do that. It makes you feel good about yourself. When you listen to people talk about their accomplishments, when they mention charity work, or helping a friend, or being a war hero, it makes them proud. Compare that to the feeling of making trouble, fighting, doing damage, to keep busy. If I was a millionaire I could donate money, but I am not, so I enjoy spending time cheering up and helping people on the list, and I get information to help my father, with his PD, or my mother who takes such good care of him. You are a big part of the list, helping people with JOBS, etc. you should be proud, and have much enjoyment. Ken B