I wrote the following piece soon after hearing of the death of a very dear friend of mine, Steve Mulligan. Many of you knew him personally, others knew of him through his website - The Mulligan Foundation. Most of you may not have known Steve, but you have friends much like Steve. I share this with you, who understand my grief, my anger and my frustration. I share this with you because Steve is the first one of my friends with PD to die!! I share this with you, also, to challenge you to do more. Dear Steve, You left us so suddenly July 30th. It takes my breath away to think about you being gone. I keep thinking that it can't be true. Surely this is someone's idea of a bad joke. You were too young - only 49!! It seems like yesterday when we last talked - me giving you my cheerleader "rah rah", and you making me laugh with that slow, dry wit of yours. Until now, I would become indignant when I'd hear someone speak of another's cause of death as being "from" Parkinson's Disease. My curt reply was always, "We don't DIE from Parkinson's Disease. We just, sometimes, wish we would." Now I am indignant because your death forces me to face the reality that PD DOES KILL US. For some of us, it's an emotional death, others a spiritual death. And for you, my dear friend, the ultimate, physical death. I am angry at PD for defeating you in your battle to survive. You, who were so gifted, so unique, so ALIVE - you had much work yet to do. WE had much work yet to accomplish together - The Mulligan Foundation, support groups, so many ideas! Your death shouldn't have occurred now. Yes, I am grateful for the time your Pallidotomy afforded you, but it wasn't enough, was it? The recent breakthroughs in medications and newer surgical technques didn't come in time for you. Why is it that the condition of our existence boils down to money? I hate that! I know that if our research had been adequately funded, you wouldn't have suffered as you did. Perhaps, you wouldn't be gone from my life. The research at Emory, albeit one of the finest and most prestigious, has seriously inadequate funding for the work that is needed to help those of us you left behind. Right now, the very program that gave you and me HOPE, bought us precious time with our Pallidotomies and offers hope to thousands of others, is in grave need of money. For two years now, I have closed my ears to the constant pleas to raise money for Emory's Parkinson's Research. From a Social Worker/Cheerleader point of view, I couldn't justify using my talents and skills in that way. Two things have occurred to change my attitude. Having worked for well over 3 years to get the Udall Bill passed, I now understand how slow and seemingly, inadequate the political process can be. Even if the Udall Bill were passed today (and I pray that it will be), it wouldn't solve the financial problems existing in Parkinson's research. IT WOULDN'T SAVE YOUR LIFE. It is only a step, a very important step, toward adequate funding - towards saving the lives of our friends. The major breakthroughs (dare I hope for a cure in my lifetime?) won't be possible without money from the private sector. The financial issure becomes much more personal when, because of the disparity, some one I love dies. Your death now provides for me the understanding, committment, determination and passion to raise money for Emory' s Parkinson's reseach program - hopefuly to prevent our friends with Parkinson's from suffering as you did. Steve, your life added value to the lives and filled the hearts of many! Your death, too, adds equal, if not more, value. I promised you better days ahead, didn't I? Selfishly, I wanted those "better days" to be spent here on earth. I wanted to share them with you. I know, though,that where you are now, you ARE enjoying those "better days." In your memory, I reaffirm my vow to do all that is within me to continue offering hope of better days ahead for all of our friends who continue the PD battle. I also vow to do all that I can to assure that the money is available to make that hope a reality so others won't have to suffer us you did....it assure us all that your suffering had purpose. Your proud, fighting spiirit lives on in me and in all of your family and friends - all who were privileged to share a part of your unique life. Thank you Steve, for showing me how to live in dignity with PD! Missing you, Terrie For those of you who would like to express your sympathies to Kathy, Steve's wife.The address is: Kathy Mulligan 10663 Nine Mile Road Whitmore Lake, Michigan 48189 At the family's request, all memorials in Steve's name are to be sent to: Emory University Department of Neurology WMB - 6000, P,O, Drawer V Atlanta, Georgia 30322 checks made out to : Emory Pallidotomy Research Fund