On Fri, 26 Sept 1997 Ken Becker said: >It would be so easy to say your wife is being selfish, and paint her as a bad person, but she is at the age where hormones can do bad things to her mental processes. MAYBE counseling would help. I know you want her to be Hold your horses here! Menopause is a change that's for sure. However, it is used far to often to point a finger of blame at women during this time of life. Let's not forget men are hormonal as well which can account for so many guys dumping their wives for younger women. Peace, Clara N.