Barb M. WELL, my FIRST reaction was to blame it on her being selfish, inconsiderate, etc, etc, but I know a LITTLE bit about menopause, that would make a normally perfectly adjusted and content woman, acidentally scratch her hubby's neck, with a 20 HP chainsaw, until his adams apple drips down his back.......... I mean, here I was defending a woman, who everyone else will probably make into chopped liver, using dull baseball bats...giving her the benefit of the doubt, and I get a smack! OKAY, I can deal with a little smack upside the head! excuse me while I scrape my brain up off the rug here, before it stains the fabric...it was just Scotchguarded, you know.............. (the fabric, not my mutilated brain!) Ken B