Dear Barb M-- I was so moved by your description of the process of "letting go" of the things destroyed in the quake, and the resolution you found in such a creative way. It struck me that this same process of healing can take place also in dealing with a broken relationship which must be put behind one..."reframing"and reclaimingthe beautiful pieces, and then being able to let go of the painful ones. Thank you for a glimpse of another side of the "ducking/grinning Barb", and a beautiful metaphor! Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter, 79/8, Oxford,Ohio [log in to unmask] * * * * * * * * * * * * * * "Ask me about the CARE list for PD caregivers!" * * * * * * * * * * * * * *