Dear Donald, I just joined this group, so I don't know who you've offended or not. What I hear in your message, however, is the voice of a courageous man who is very tired. I am a care giver, but I know there will be hard times as my mom gets further along with her illness. I value all of the information I can get about how it might be for us in the future. Although it was painful to read, I'm glad you shared your day with us. And I hope that our conversations will give you the strength to carry on for another day. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Susan Jordan cg for Mom-Kay 80/2 atlanta area ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ The Jordan Group Our Business is Making a Difference