Reply to message from [log in to unmask] of Sun, 26 Oct > >The computer has slowly changed my life for tne better...My husband used >to download these letters for me. I enjoyed them but sometimes they were >a week old and I did not know how to respond. One day I typed a letter on >word perfect and he sent it that evening, for one week we received replies. >I could not answer them; he was giving me that NO look. > > This summer my daughter who is 13 showed me how to get the letters each >day. That entertained me while she was at camp. Soon I wanted more. > > When she returned we began talking on the chat line. This was fun >for awhile but I wanted to talk without her. I needed privacy. > >On Sept.2 my 54th birthday my husband got me a computer with windows 95..He >set it up in our bedroom. I am making great progress because today I am >witing a complaint. > > The reason I love the chat line is it is the only place I have found >in the 10 years that I have had PD where people accept me. We laugh at each >other, encourage each other. We have never met yet there is a closeness >that is very special. I know if I have had a bad day it's allright to be a >litle bitchy. That's the mood I was in the other night when I found myself >in a private chat room with another member. I was being told the gospel. I >listened; I know she meant well. > > I have had the same conversation many times. The decision that I have >made is personal. If I was looking for spiritual answers I would brose the >net. This was not the place. I no longer feel that the chat line is a >place where I can relax. That is not right. > >Ruth Spielberger > > Hi Ruth! It is me Nancy or who you would call angel_1on chat. I do not mean to imply any religious conotations with my chat name. It came about because of my former name 'ds401' sounded robotic. I hope you find your happiness once again on a chat line or whatever path you choose to follow. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion concerning religious beliefs and their approperiateness on Chat. I do appreciate that the "prayer" was held on a private chat; leaving the chat line open for various coversations. This is my opinion. Whether anyone thinks it is right or wrong is their own right. That is what an opinion is- something a person can decide whether or not it is right or wrong for they themselves or someone they care about. Smile Nancy --