original posted on 970715 ------------------------- my dear sib marling you wrote: >your outlook is great >I have always felt that I am responsible for my own actions >and reactions and no one else's. thank you for your kind words but... if you have 'always' felt that way howcum you didn't let me in on the secret earlier? here i am a grown woman of 50 and sometimes i feel like i'm still in kindergarten! >By the way, I have also found that I can color that hole. >Mine now has rainbow swirls. It makes it cheery (ha ha). i have described the 'paralysis of will' that accompanies slimey thinking as akin to functioning in a vat of green jello [extra thick] but i like your idea better your syb-sis janet