Just a gentle reminder that there ARE times when a PWP wants the CG to speak for her/him. How does the other person know whether this may be the case? When we go to the doc, or in most situations except conversations with family and friends, Peter ASKS me to do the talking. I often try to steer questions to him, but he doesn't always appreciate it! Just another example of our famous "different strokes for different folks"--but don't necessarily consider the CG as "rude". > >If she is being so rude as to speak for him, she perhaps deserves to be >gently chastised. You could say, "I know Fred finds things difficult, >but I have found that, given the time, most PWPs (including myself) can >do a lot more than people give them credit for!" > >Alternatively, you simply IGNORE the carer's response, and repeat your >question to Fred (?) starting it with "Fred, how ...". She SHOULD get >the message! > >-- >Jeremy Browne - [log in to unmask] >Hampshire, UK Camilla [log in to unmask] # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # The World is One Country # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # #