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Jack, I can only tell you what has worked for me as far as living fairly safely and comfortably for the last four years. I have had PD for 20 yrs and about 5 yrs ago I found I had to retire on disability. I was a widow living in the home where I had lived for 20 years and my children began to worry, especially after I had suffered several falls. We looked at several elderly places, most with one room and you were only eligible for the facility if you could get to the dining room under your own power, We did look ar one place, however, that consisted of one or two bedroom apartments with their own kitchen even though you could (and did pay for) eat 3 meals a day in a communal dining room. However, in most ways you were on your own and could lie some time before you were discovered after a fall. My kids didn't think it would provide enough security and we crossed it off the list. Then, six months later I saw an article in the paper describing a wing opened up by this same elderly community that had staff available 24 hours a day for handicapped but still indepenedent adults. Staff was available for shower help, assistance in getting to the dining room if needed and to do laundry, They also checked on people and were available for med reminders, putting drops in eyes etc. This arangement has been good for me. I have my own living room in which to entertain my friends and my own kitchen to brew up a cup of coffee. They do my laundry and clean my apartment once a week. There is a bank and a beauty shop in the building. It has worked out well and I dread the aternative. I'm not aware of many places like this. It's not perfect but I think it's worth looking for something similar. Joan Holliday