Tami, speaking for myself, I believe you, and hope you do not leave the list because you were misjudged. Anyone who is a PWP, or a relative of a PWP is vulnerable to be taken advantage of, and there have been many attempts in the past. In most cases, when the ruse is exposed, the perpetrators just leave the list, and say nothing. My gut feeling is that you would not be upset and hurt if you were just an opportunist. We have over 1500 individuals on this list, and we are never all going to agree 100% on what is and is not proper on the list, but don't mistake caution for meanness. [log in to unmask]