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Mark: While each situation or facility is different, let me tell you a bit about our experience with a nursing home last Spring. My mother had a stroke early in February. After 4 days in the hospital, she was moved to a nursing home/ rehabilitation center. At this point, the hospital doctors were off the case. Her GP took only office visits and we got absolutely no help when we tried to call that office. The staff doctor at the nursing home visited once or twice a week -- we never saw him. While the rehab facilities were excellent and the care givers (dressing, eating, bathroom) did their jobs well, I was a little suspicious of the nursing staff. They administered meds on schedule and that seemed to be it, unless I went after them. Since I was in Georgia and Mom was in Florida, and Dad was suffering with shock and, it turns out, the early stages of undiagnosed PD, our efforts at getting proactive care were hit or miss. The end result was not good. Mom developed serious circulation problems. We noticed it first with the edema in her legs and WE had to point this out to the nursing staff. Within a week she was back in the hospital with congestive heart failure and a few days later she was gone. You can see that I do not have a high opinion of the *medical* care at nursing homes. I'm still working out my own guilt and anger, so take that into account here. However, if your goal is to get more fine tuning on your fathers meds, I think you should either fight to keep him where he is a bit longer, or at least confirm that his neuro will actively treat your father in the new facility. Wish you the best. Jane K., Marietta, GA Fred's (79/7 mos.) daughter